Create Your Own Reality

create your own reality

We are approached daily by the opportunities around us. When we do not recognize or notice them, that means we have programmed our brain for something else.

Maybe you’re at the moment thinking about the bills you need to pay or about the problems you need to face. Then it feels like it becomes more and more. The moment you are focusing on the negative don’t expect something to change or the situation to get better.

How to Find Solutions?

We see around us only the things on what we are focusing. Instead of negativity, try to think how to resolve a problem, how to find solutions, where, when, what, who? Ask all those questions and program your mind on finding solutions instead of excuses.

You can see and think what you decide to see and think of.

I am sure that many have noticed if they think about one certain thing all day long, for example a certain car, then all you can see on the roads is like suddenly everybody is driving that car. Like universe has been reading your thoughts and showing it to you.

I am sure you have heard the sentence “universe will bring you” and don’t translate it wrong. What many are doing is they think they only need to have the mindset. They work for the mindset and then the universe will read and bring.

What actually happens is that you, yourself started to think differently and see the solutions or notice opportunities. Taking Action Is Important, Every Day!


Think Differently

What do you want to focus and think of all day long? Everybody can feel down, everybody can be stressed. Everyone might experience the depression. Everybody can blame someone else of why you don’t currently have the life you desired. Be careful because what you think of, you become exactly that. What everybody can’t simply do is to actually push through every situation. That’s because their mind is filled with too many excuses. Not waiting when they are “feeling like it” but no matter of the situation or emotions to work towards it.

First step to make is to be honest with yourself. Stop blaming others or finding excuses, with that you will harm no other than yourself. This is the truth and you should face it and see. You are the one living with yourself. What kind of life do you want to experience? Where do you want to be in a couple of years?

You Can Do Anything That Your Mind Believes.


This is a guest post, brought to you by Diana Teniste.

Her blog can help you realize that you can do anything you set your mind to.

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Crisly Todorovic

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This Post Has 24 Comments

  1. LynDurante

    Awesome post. I fully agree. Life is a series of choices and it’s what we choose that makes the most out of life. Truly inspirational!

    1. Crisly Zerrudo

      Thank you Lyn, indeed we have a choice no matter what.

  2. I agree wholeheartedly that we create our own destinies. How we look at things influences every facet of our lives and being positive takes a little skill to learn when you aren’t used to it, but it’s so much more productive. I’m a glass half full person and on the occasions I get into the funk of “wtf is going on with my life”, my boyfriend reminds me that I am not a Skeptical Susie and that gives me the attitude adjustment that I need. Thanks for sharing!

    1. Crisly Zerrudo

      Yes Kristie, being positive is easier said than done, but when we learn how to do it believe it or not it makes our lives easier and helps us face every challenges with more strength.

  3. Anne-Geri' Fann

    Absolutely! I struggle with negativity sometimes and that is what probably keeps me from achieving the goals I set out to do in the first place. *sigh* Good post. 🙂

    1. Crisly Zerrudo

      Thank you Anne, know that you are not alone who struggles with negativity. It’s not easy to be positive all the time, it is a battle that you have to face everyday and you have to win it.

  4. Renee

    I needed this inspiration today as I take a new path at work. Thank you!

  5. momelite2

    I was just talking about this last night during my sons baseball practice. A grandmother told me a story about a football player who would repeat to himself during the games, “Don’t drop the ball”. He would drop the ball. When he changed his repeating to say to himself “Catch the ball” he would catch the ball. It’s all about mindset.

  6. You, Me and Benny

    This is so true – especially with the car thing. Once I got my jeep I saw they were EVERYWHERE! It’s crazy how you notice things like that

  7. kendraeschneider

    Love this! I’m a big advocate for quick decision making! It’s so important.

  8. Sonali

    Very true analyzing ourselves is very important step and everyone must work on it, by setting up the right goal in order to achieve something.

  9. Polly Amora

    I agree with these. Everything starts with the mind. With the mind begins the way you feel towards something. Then, your emotions affect your attitude. And finally your attitude will manifest itself into what you do or say. It’s more of like a chain reaction. “Law of Attraction” – tell the universe what you want, start by creating a positive mindset and it will come to you.

  10. Kimmy Mason

    Great post, It’s so true that we have the power to change our lives through positive thinking.

  11. Joanna

    I do believe that the universe will bring you opportunities, but you need to be prepared to see and take them. An open mind can help you do just that and make your life happy.

  12. aisasami

    What good advice! I want to try to make my own reality and not let people dedicate what it is. It all depends on my postive thinking that makes my own reality.

  13. Jessica A

    The whole time I was saying Yes! This is so great! I try to everyday to stop myself from turning myself into the bad person I THINK I am. I know I am destined for greatness. I just need to stop making excuses

  14. Lisette

    Love and agree with everything you said in this post. It is so easy to focus on other people’s successes on social media, but one thing I’ve learned is to focus on myself and my own goals. I used to be so critical of myself and then I came to the realization that what I am doing now is more than enough and it can only go up from here.

    xo, Lisette

  15. blair villanueva

    Life is full of choices and its up to pick one or a space and mold it that suits us. When we manage it well, it will gives us awesome results.

  16. This is a great post. Choices you make can turn your life many different ways. The key is to own them!

  17. I recently read a book and it’s called Mindset. And it’s exactly what you’ve outlined in the article here. Having a positive lookout is very important. It’s this kind of mindset that helps us the most in all aspects of life.

  18. Adventures with Shelby

    This is such an important mentality!

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